I know it is a cliche to say that a certain teacher "changed my
life." But cliche or no, I am certain that many of us have had at least
one.
For me that teacher was Richard "Doc" Neunherz, who I have just learned passed away yesterday.
In
a life spent almost entirely within the world of education, I have been
very fortunate in my teachers and academic advisers. At every level I
have been lucky enough to have at least one person who took an interest
in me, encouraged me, and taught me something important about myself
that transcended the subject of our inquiry. But for all my good fortune
(and comparing notes with some of my colleagues, I am well aware of
just how lucky I've been), Doc Neunherz surpassed them all
Before
that, although I'd had good teachers, I never knew what it meant to
have a teacher change the way I understood the activity of learning. I
don't recall exactly how long it took sitting in Doc's class in the Fall
of 1990 to realize it, whether it was after the first class or the
second (it couldn't have been any later than that) that that it hit me:
this man was who I wanted to be when I grew up.
I don't
know what it was exactly about him. His teaching was always extremely
lively to be sure, frenetic at times (a style I notice has had more than
a small impact on my own) -- no matter what the subject of the day's
discussion was, he was always immersed in it, pacing back and forth in
the middle of the classroom (in those days, our tables were arranged in a
square, with an open space in the middle, the front-left hand corner
open so that Doc could enter the arena and exit to write a word or
concept on the board). He always wore the same thing, which I have since
then always regarded as the historian's uniform: collared shirt, messy
(sometimes stained) v-neck sweater, sleeves rolled up to the elbow with
shirt cuff pealed back over them, pants, sometimes clean (and often not)
and scuffed loafers. Chosen, I'd always assumed, simply because they
didn't require much thought, they conveyed unconsciously what actually
mattered in Doc's classroom: ideas, clearly expressed.
This was no small lesson for a teenager, especially one like me: a poor
kid on a full scholarship at a fancy prep school, painfully
self-conscious of my appearance and the difference between me and what I imagined were my better-heeled classmates.
I
want to say he reminded me of a method actor when he stepped into the
classroom, like the best Stanislawski student, he took the part and
internalized it, became it -- except in this case it wasn't some
imaginary character, but rather the embodiment of all the things I have
come to associate with intellectual cultivation. It was sharp, it was
challenging, it was tough and tolerated no soft thinking or mushy ideas.
There
was no better feeling -- and as I write this, it I feel viscerally once
again this flutter of excitement in my chest, nervous and warm -- that I
would get when he would throw out a question and I knew the answer.
That was one of his tools as he lectured. His lectures would begin with a
thesis on the day's topic, and the lecture would build slowly,
elaborating and building his case. Every so often, whether to check up
on who was awake, or (as I prefer to think), test us on how well we
understood where he was going, trying to separate the wheat from the
chaff, the serious thinkers from those just passing the time until free
period. It probably wasn't his motivation, but it's how I thought of it.
I don't need to say that I never wanted to, nor to my knowledge did I
ever, not make the "cut" that I imagined going on. But, unlike in many
of my other subjects, it wasn't fear that motivated me to make sure I
was never caught out.
It was a love for the activity of
learning history, but even more it was a desire of the deepest sort: to
impress this man. He was like that. His approval meant more to me than
just about any person I had ever known. Those few times where I felt
like I didn't match up, or let him down, weigh as heavily on me to this
day more than those of almost anyone else. It's strange to think about
that as I write it, but it's true.
In fact, it was when
I didn't meet his expectations -- or else what I imagined them to be --
that I came to realize just how important his pedagogy was to me. The
most prominent example that comes to mind was at the beginning of the
second class I took with Doc -- AP American history. Doc's AP history
class was legendary when I was a student. If there was a class in my
mind that really was the big leagues, it was that one.
[Of
course Doc and his close colleague Mr. Callow (the two of them were
this dynamic duo at Charles Wright -- I my mind back then, they were the
closest thing we had to a high-level think tank) only added to the
mystique that surrounded acceptance into the AP American class --
starting with the fact that one had to be accepted into the class.]
The
first assignment was to write an essay based upon the summer's reading,
which was itself considerable for a junior in high school -- a
historical monograph on the early colonial period (I'm embarrassed to
say I don't remember the book). I did the work with as much enthusiasm
as I could muster (which, with a full-time summer job and a social life
wasn't a huge amount), wrote the paper, and turned it in.
Then
I got it back...with a C+. I was distraught. The grade was the lowest
grade I'd ever gotten on a paper (before or since). Even worse: it was
from Doc. A C+ from God almighty would have been easier to take, if only
because I certainly didn't feel quite the pressure to impress God. I
couldn't conceive of what had happened.
I did come to
understand what Doc was doing -- as he himself explained to me when I
stayed after class to have a breakdown. It was a pedagogic exercise; the
idea was to grade us as though we were in a college seminar, to drive
home the idea that historical writing was a complicated endeavor and
required a lot of work and thought to be done well. This was, at least
on some level, a way of deflating our own self-estimations, of breaking
down bad habits and getting our attention.
Well, I
think in my case it worked too well. Already insecure, I was now
terrified that, if I couldn't do well in a subject that I thought was
far and away my best, terrible consequences would follow. I was afraid
foremost that I would lose my scholarship and have to start over, back
in public school at Peninsula High. This, you should know, was a
terrifying prospect for me. Or, even worse, that I would doom my chances
at the one thing I thought I wanted more than anything: getting in to
an elite East Coast college.
I was crushed. More than
that, I was actually terrified of having to leave Charles Wright, or
what this said about the quality of my intellect. Most of all, I felt
betrayed. I had made no secret of my admiration for Doc; had been on the
knowledge bowl team (his baby while I was there), had asked for him to
be my adviser, had met with him again and again. I honestly didn't know
what happened.
This, needless to say, was a lot to lay
on the poor man. Again in retrospect, he was probably giving me much
more credit than I realized: it was a tough grade, but he thought I
could handle it and learn the lesson that was to be learned. That I
didn't take it that way was, really, my own problem, and he would have
been justified in telling me to get a grip and do better next time.
But
that's not what he did -- well, not entirely. He did tell me to get a
grip -- that I wasn't going to lose my scholarship because of one paper
grade (it's hard to believe, but I really did think in those
terms...crazy), that this wasn't a reflection on my abilities or
talents, or even my potential to excel in his class (and I did do fine
in the end).
More importantly, though, was a concept he
took special pains to explain to me not just at that meeting but
frequently afterwards: perspective. He told me about his own
experiences. He told me how he had nearly failed out or Princeton his
first year. Even deeper, and probably more painful for him, he told me
how hard it had been, after earning a Ph.D. in history from the
University of Washington, for him to come to terms with his life as a
high school teacher.
Now this was a shocker. To this
day it is amazing to me how candid he was with me. I'm quite touched in
retrospect. He told me that taking the position at Charles Wright years
before was not his ideal choice; that what he wanted, like most who earn
a Ph.D. in history, was to go into academia, to write and publish. As I
now know only too well, it is -- and was then -- painfully difficult to
succeed in academia. For those who actually succeed in landing that
tenure-track job, there are so many who, for whatever reason, it doesn't
happen for (and I use the passive very pointedly here -- it is far more
often the case that the career doesn't happen than that one doesn't make it work).
Up
to that point I could not have conceived of Doc not being exactly where
he wanted to be. To me, he was at the top of his profession. I felt
like he was the smartest man I'd ever met, and I naively couldn't
imagine a reality where he didn't simply take whatever job he wished. As
I figured it, he must have been at Charles Wright because it was where
he wanted to be. As someone who felt like I'd won the lottery every
single day I rode through the gates of that beautiful Charles Wright
campus, I couldn't imagine otherwise.
No, he told me,
it had been difficult for him. But after many years, he had come to
realize something important: that things have a way of working out for
the best even when you don't expect it. That even though he was at a job
that he had once felt was not what he thought he'd be doing, he had
found it more rewarding than he ever could have imagined. I know this
may seem like a rather banal lesson, but it is hard to overstate how
much having someone like Doc Neunherz tell me this. I won't say that it
sank in immediately (although I did feel flattered by his candor). But
over the years, I come again and again to the conclusion that it was at
that moment, along with a handful of other experiences (some of them
also involving Doc), that were pivotal in getting me where I am today.
I'm
sad to say that after my junior year, the year of AP American history, I
drifted away from Doc. The next year, I sat out a new class the he was
offering for seniors that I flatter myself to think he had wanted me to
take, so that I could join the newly-instituted drama program (hey, it
didn't hurt -- I did end up as Tevye in Fiddler on the Roof that year).
Somehow I felt, while I was a senior, that I had moved on, and in
thinking this I made some mistakes in my relationship with Doc that I
will always regret, at least a little.
[I have to
insert here my momentary insight that it is amazing how little I
actually know about what Doc thought about any of these things...I am
sure I project a great deal onto the relationship; such is the nature of
teenage self-centeredness.]
Well, in any case, now I
am living out a career that started back in Doc's classroom. I don't
think it is in any way an exaggeration to say that whatever success I
have in this work, but even more in my ability to move on when things
don't exactly work as planned, is in no small part due to Doc's
influence.
I
had wanted to send Doc a copy of my book when it comes out, but alas it
is not due out until the fall. I had so hoped to send it to him and
dreamed that just maybe he'd read it and we could reconnect when he
told me what he thought of it.
So as a meager tribute and a thank you to him, I'm
putting the dust jacket here -- the first time I've shown it. I can
think of no better way to say thank you to Doc than to point out the
obvious: that were it not for him and his classroom, I'd never have
gotten where I am.